#247: Lets Talk About Sex with Eleanor Hadley
Let’s talk about SEX!
If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.
If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and want to learn, we’ve got Eleanor Hadley @eleanorhadley - sex educator, writer, and speaker - on this episode, helping us overcome the shame or guilt we might feel when it comes to sex.
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SHOW NOTES
00:21 - Eleanor's background
01:50 - Not being able to explore about sex
05:33 - Some of the roadblocks that stop women from having good sex
08:53 - Spontaneous vs responsive desire
10:38 - Mismatched desire
12:10 - Working on each other's desire types
16:20 - Pleasure language
17:00 - Different styles
19:18 - Low sex drive and not knowing what turn them on
20:33 - Madonna-whore academy
23:22 - Performative femininity vs embodied
26:49 - Unrealistic porn performance
28:49 - Audio erotica
29:43 - Watching too much porn
30:45 - Her advice to women who aren't comfortable with their own body
32:06 - Sensual movement
33:49 - Couples who are not having sex
36:57 - Going through different seasons
38:50 - New relationship energy
43:14 - Marriage and monogamy
48:59 - Social condition and programing
49:47 - Non-monogamy
50:30 - Polyamorous
54:54 - Jealousy
56:02 - Relationship and romantic connection
59:17 - Couples who want to explore different fantasies
01:01:22 - Threesomes and being a "unicorn"
01:07:15 - Feeld app
01:08:19 - Where to start
01:10:00 - Self-pleasure
01:11:40 - Trying something different
01:12:29 - Orgasm and penetration
01:16:35 - Foreplay
01:20:50 - Communicating with your partner
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